For the initial couple of weeks of springtime, I was kicking it in lazy mode. I was really slacking on my fashion and grooming. I figured that I already looked sharp enough to meet my romantic needs. The girls kept coming into my bedroom, so I figured things were cool.
My results were pretty normal, however the quality of girl I was pulling was a little bit sub-standard. The amount of effort I needed to place in was likewise more than normal. Not very, but visibly so. Just recently, I enhanced my efforts to look fresh every single time I went out and the modification has been similarly noticeable. I've been acquiring additional eye contact from even more girls and they were much more receptive when I approached.
Once more, these adjustments to my results weren't planet smashing, however they were very recognizable. I presumed it was merely another application of the "be attractive" adage, but a peculiar theory occurred to me as I was doing some girl spotting with a few buds in the posh Omotesando area.
We were trading notes on the best ways to determine who the sexually generous girls are based on appearance alone. Jingly bracelets and earrings is good sign. T-shirt underneath a camisole implies don't bother. Tanning at the coast in a bikini means she's comfortable being naked. Floppy hat and long sleeves means you're looking at a premature old lady. Odd style plus no war paint means Chinese, which amounts to garlic breath and attitude.
A United States Navy officer was there with us that day. He had only been in Japan for a few months and his only input into the conversation was, "I'm just going to assume they're all sluts."
Then it dawned on me: Japanese gals have a similarly if not much more sophisticated sorting capability for Japanese guys, and a comparatively unsophisticated one for non-Asians. It's simply natural-- they spend their whole lives surrounded by and connecting with largely Japanese men. They recognize exactly how to detect a Japanese guy that cares for himself and one who does not. They will rapidly catch on to the nuances that show high or low sexual worth in a Japanese man.
Remember, this sorting process is purely subconscious. It's essentially a flinch reaction no different from an MLB slugger's ability to react to 90mph fastballs based on visual cues from the pitcher's wind up and release.
This means if you resemble an East Asian, you need to look good or you run the risk of running into denial. Various other foreigners will certainly have a bit even more leeway to work their game given that an overseas face will initially delay Japanese females' automated filters. But, speaking from personal observation, the magnitude of this effect is minimal for most. Foreigners are require to look excellent to obtain Japanese women as well. Evident schlubs are turned down outright regardless of their skin tone and the white dude in the club with running shoes and cargo pants is still going the home with his hand.
One last point to keep in mind is that this automatic sorting works both ways. If you landed on the gorgeous side of it, you could have a great deal of success a lot easier and with more ladies than your round-eyed equal. If you do not, you're dealing with an uphill battle to the land of squeaky noises and unshaven pubic hair.
In a nutshell, if you're an Asian bachelor looking for a good time in Tokyo, you'd best come correct.
My results were pretty normal, however the quality of girl I was pulling was a little bit sub-standard. The amount of effort I needed to place in was likewise more than normal. Not very, but visibly so. Just recently, I enhanced my efforts to look fresh every single time I went out and the modification has been similarly noticeable. I've been acquiring additional eye contact from even more girls and they were much more receptive when I approached.
Once more, these adjustments to my results weren't planet smashing, however they were very recognizable. I presumed it was merely another application of the "be attractive" adage, but a peculiar theory occurred to me as I was doing some girl spotting with a few buds in the posh Omotesando area.
We were trading notes on the best ways to determine who the sexually generous girls are based on appearance alone. Jingly bracelets and earrings is good sign. T-shirt underneath a camisole implies don't bother. Tanning at the coast in a bikini means she's comfortable being naked. Floppy hat and long sleeves means you're looking at a premature old lady. Odd style plus no war paint means Chinese, which amounts to garlic breath and attitude.
A United States Navy officer was there with us that day. He had only been in Japan for a few months and his only input into the conversation was, "I'm just going to assume they're all sluts."
Then it dawned on me: Japanese gals have a similarly if not much more sophisticated sorting capability for Japanese guys, and a comparatively unsophisticated one for non-Asians. It's simply natural-- they spend their whole lives surrounded by and connecting with largely Japanese men. They recognize exactly how to detect a Japanese guy that cares for himself and one who does not. They will rapidly catch on to the nuances that show high or low sexual worth in a Japanese man.
Remember, this sorting process is purely subconscious. It's essentially a flinch reaction no different from an MLB slugger's ability to react to 90mph fastballs based on visual cues from the pitcher's wind up and release.
This means if you resemble an East Asian, you need to look good or you run the risk of running into denial. Various other foreigners will certainly have a bit even more leeway to work their game given that an overseas face will initially delay Japanese females' automated filters. But, speaking from personal observation, the magnitude of this effect is minimal for most. Foreigners are require to look excellent to obtain Japanese women as well. Evident schlubs are turned down outright regardless of their skin tone and the white dude in the club with running shoes and cargo pants is still going the home with his hand.
One last point to keep in mind is that this automatic sorting works both ways. If you landed on the gorgeous side of it, you could have a great deal of success a lot easier and with more ladies than your round-eyed equal. If you do not, you're dealing with an uphill battle to the land of squeaky noises and unshaven pubic hair.
In a nutshell, if you're an Asian bachelor looking for a good time in Tokyo, you'd best come correct.
About the Author:
Japanese girls can be a mystery. They certainly were to me, and I'm Japanese-American. Fortunately, I figured out how to lead a life of romantic abundance in the land of the rising sun. Learn everything I wish I'd known about meeting Japanese girls back when I was a college graduate on my blog: redsunblue.com
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