I mostly used to be that type of person that would hold on to friends, things, feelings, and circumstances too much. I'd grasp at them just until they couldn't move readily around my mind and my life. I was convinced that if I held them firmly that it would absolutely keep them close to me. What I found on the contrary is that gripping onto things too much only chokes the air out of them or makes them sift through your hands like sand.
I believed that holding on was the best sign of strength - that to prove quite how much you want something that you must hang onto it with everything that you've got. But in all that , I lost parts of myself. I lost my capability to change. I really didn't give other stuff the chance to change so I instead ground them into submission without letting them function freely. I came up against one certain trait of life that proved my judged strength weak time and again - life will always change.
So I started to let go. I began to allow those lovely and intricate portraits of memories in my mind unfold like streamers in the wind. I let them flow naturally like the waters in the streams.
When the time was right, I rolled them back up, grinned, and took some time to stare at the open sea of uncerainty in front of me.
I am ready.
I am finally open.
I am content.
It is time to move on with a full heart.
Sometimes that allowing things to unfold is the one very hard thing for us to do isn't it? Move on? Let relationships go? Yes, but essentially leaving things and never looking back is amongst the strongest things which you can do. You never quite know if something will come back around again, but if it does, it was meant to be. If it does not, you can still enjoy the present anways. Live here and now.
So let go...that's true strength.
I believed that holding on was the best sign of strength - that to prove quite how much you want something that you must hang onto it with everything that you've got. But in all that , I lost parts of myself. I lost my capability to change. I really didn't give other stuff the chance to change so I instead ground them into submission without letting them function freely. I came up against one certain trait of life that proved my judged strength weak time and again - life will always change.
So I started to let go. I began to allow those lovely and intricate portraits of memories in my mind unfold like streamers in the wind. I let them flow naturally like the waters in the streams.
When the time was right, I rolled them back up, grinned, and took some time to stare at the open sea of uncerainty in front of me.
I am ready.
I am finally open.
I am content.
It is time to move on with a full heart.
Sometimes that allowing things to unfold is the one very hard thing for us to do isn't it? Move on? Let relationships go? Yes, but essentially leaving things and never looking back is amongst the strongest things which you can do. You never quite know if something will come back around again, but if it does, it was meant to be. If it does not, you can still enjoy the present anways. Live here and now.
So let go...that's true strength.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Need help in moving on from a broken heart? Dig into these moving on quotes and they will help you take a few steps forward in the right direction.
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