What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you actually took some time to dive into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that wiped out you, it basically helped create you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. But, they are stunningly rewarding. Many have had their hearts damaged in some way or other and truthfully there isn't any worse feeling in the world. You're feeling absolutely terrible for what appears to be an eternity and the feelings of loss never seem to go away. If we keep playing on the great field of life, we're going to suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break occasionally.
But what if, when heartbreak occurs, we allow it to show us where we truly need to do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the discomfort of loss and be able to create something attractive with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should try to ascend above our discomfort, but rather as an alternative try and take our own discomfort and birth something positive and lovely out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the very same time one that might make an awesome difference when we face deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take every bit of that agony inside and turn it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is inside of you instead of letting it eat you day to day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
What if you actually took some time to dive into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that wiped out you, it basically helped create you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. But, they are stunningly rewarding. Many have had their hearts damaged in some way or other and truthfully there isn't any worse feeling in the world. You're feeling absolutely terrible for what appears to be an eternity and the feelings of loss never seem to go away. If we keep playing on the great field of life, we're going to suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break occasionally.
But what if, when heartbreak occurs, we allow it to show us where we truly need to do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the discomfort of loss and be able to create something attractive with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should try to ascend above our discomfort, but rather as an alternative try and take our own discomfort and birth something positive and lovely out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the very same time one that might make an awesome difference when we face deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take every bit of that agony inside and turn it into something else. Try writing, painting, talking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what is inside of you instead of letting it eat you day to day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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